Dedicated to my parents:
Constant Georges MERITZA
(1929-2011)
Josiane MERITZA
(1936-)
and to the one who shares my life
my friend Sophie
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The mind above the line
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April 2018 – rights reserved
"I feel that my whole life depends on that moment. If I miss it ...
- I think the opposite. If we miss this moment, we try the next one, and if we fail we start again the next moment. We have all our life to succeed
(Boris Vian - "The foam of days")
"Courage is to act and to give oneself to great causes without knowing what reward reserves the deep universe for our effort, or whether it reserves a reward for it. "
(Jean Jaurès)
Yoann MERITZA is an essayist writer specializing in personal development, including NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming), EFT (Emotional Freedom Therapy), and Behavioral and Cognitive Therapy. He has made himself known in over twenty countries thanks to his proven method, and brings together many followers of his philosophy of surpassing oneself. He is the author of "Guaranteed Success" and "How to reprogram his subconscious mind?”.
He was born March 28, 1978 in Bonneville in Haute-Savoie and grew up in Cluses in this same department. He studied accounting and a training of SME-SMI collaborator where he learned NLP (Neurolinguistic Programming). He has participated in many internships and seminars on communication and is passionate in the field of personal development. Self-taught in the soul, he continues to perfect himself in the communication and study of human nature following the footsteps of many authors of the same theme such as Napoleon Hill, Norman Vincent Peal, Florence Scovel Shinn or Dr. Joseph Murphy.
He creates his own method by synthesizing his many readings on the subject and brings readers to a broad understanding of the field of personal growth through a simplified approach for assimilation at all levels, his concern always being the accuracy of the theme chosen and to provide novice readers with clear and affordable answers at all cultural levels.
His father, Constant Georges, died on July 5, 2011 at the age of 81, was a model for him. He was a veteran of Indochina, and a former member of the TOE-GCI, road in the civil, was diagnosed with cancer of the throat in 1981, he always fought and had cultivated an enthusiasm despite his disability, because he understood how precious life was and how to live it intensely. He was a veteran both during the Indochina War, and fought for the rest of his life. He has always helped Yoann to stand up and overcome the trials of life.
Yoann bathed in this environment where he had to fight every day, he always tried to go ahead whatever happened and tried new experiences.
He attended normal schooling until 1993 before returning to apprenticeship school in Saint Jeoire where he discovered the trades of electrician, carpenter, bar turner and welder, which made him a "touch-to-do all".
In September 1995, new turning point in his life, he followed a path in the tertiary accounting at Private Professional High School "the cordeliers" in Cluses, where he discovered the office and administrative, he also learned computer management that he still serves today in his private life. But missed his BEP by a few points.
Under the guidance of his former accounting professor, he retried his BEP in 1998, which he obtained.
From February 1999 to December of that year, he did his national service at Auxonne in Burgundy at 511th Train Regiment, then at 27th BCA at Cran-Gevrier in Haute-Savoie.
After leaving the army, he decided to try his BA in accounting as an independent candidate, he Bucha for months on all subjects, became his "own teacher," even today, autodidact at heart, he knew "self coach", he graduated, but decided not to stop, feeling grow wings, he worked in the industry to finance his studies by correspondence, which was for him "a big piece Every night to attend classes, but the results were slim for him.
He undertook to resume his studies in recurrent session in 2001, inquired at training centers and at the "Information and Orientation Center" (CIO) where he was followed by a counselor who helped him fill out the forms. necessary for his reintegration into the professional cycle.
In September 2001, he returned to the Lycée Guillaume Fichet, he was then 23, four years separated from other students, a slight generational shock that he was able to compensate, he adapted very well to this environment, and in June 2003 he obtained his professional bachelor's degree in accounting.
He tried all means to pass his BTS, because at 25, he was now too old for employers, as a professional immersion in two years. He suffered defeats, but did not admit defeat. He attended some seminars for major car brands, including Valence in the Drôme.
In 2004, he seized a golden opportunity by following a training of SME / SMI collaborator at the Chamber of Commerce and Industries of Scionzier in Haute-Savoie, he discovered the NLP (Neurolinguistic Programming) where he learned the tools to shape the subconscious, and manage human nature.
From 2007 to now, he has been interested in the topics of personal development, control of the subconscious and has read many books on the topics of psychology and behavior, he has also attended coaching seminars. He still follows, and quite regularly coaches in personal development.
He is also a member of the National Union of Combatants (UNC-Alps), and the friendly 27th BCA.
Hello to you readers friends,
First of all, for those who do not know me yet, let me introduce myself.
I am, I was, and I will be, at the same time, an author, an actor, and a spectator like everyone else, and I will explain to you later why I say this.
I am Yoann MERITZA, author specialized in personal development, in particular in NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming), EFT (Emotional Freedom Therapy), and in Behavioral and Cognitive Therapy. Human nature has become for me a source of inspiration and behavioral study fascinates me, because there is always matter to learn, because as a quote would say:
"The more we know, the less we know!"
I have already made my mark in social networks and I make myself known in more than twenty countries, especially in France, in Spain, and the United Kingdom, but this was a long way that was not often paved with gold.
As everyone started out in the field of personal growth and the study of human nature, and who became famous over the years, there was a starting point, these people were like you, they were like me, being part of the popular mass, but they have been able to stand out by winning and believing in their dreams, everyone has the right to succeed and deserve a better life. And as an author in personal development, I respect this concept enough because I know where I come from.
Authors like Max Piccinini, Franck Nicolas, Slavica Bobdanov, Jack Canfield, Bob Proctor and many others are people I respect a lot because they come from a so-called "popular" milieu, where you are right now, but look where they are now, they have succeeded brilliantly, and take pleasure in sharing, like me, their knowledge. Why would not it be the same for you? It also means that you doubt your ability, but you will learn that for those who really believe in it, anything is possible!
I hope that you, yourself, will break the barriers of your life, find your place in society, just as so many others have done, that is the purpose of this book, and I will give you all the tools you need to get there, but you have to work together, what you're going to discover is a very powerful way to get everything you want in life, but it's not a magic book, it calls for common sense and rules that govern the universe.
You hold in your hands the book of your life and believe it or not, something has led you to these lines.
How could I define this one? It's a collection of all the tools that can lead you to success on all levels, and be the person you've always wanted to be, and go beyond your wildest dreams, he holds the keys of a power, that of attraction.
If you do not believe for a moment, nothing prevents you from going further upstream of this reading, but it would be a shame to miss the opportunity to change all your destiny, to be "above of the line".
Well used, this book has immense power, allowing you to cross barriers that seemed impossible to reach.
You still do not believe it? Let me prove you the opposite over the pages, I'll take you on a wonderful journey inside yourself, something will happen, "It will materialize as you progress through your reading! But I do not tell you what it is for now.
There is no magic in there, everything you want is happening, at any time, I will explain how.
This book will tell you everything you need to know about the law of attraction, it has been designed so that you understand in essence the essential rules of life to respect to make good use of it. Everything that you will discover there will exceed all your expectations by bringing clear answers on the subject, such is my objective by writing it.
It is the fruit of long hours of research work on the subject, I could say that it is a pure concentrate of knowledge, such was my will in writing it, it is to make it effective and it is, that said, do not expect that everything happens alone, it will be necessary to put of your, I give the bases of the foundation, with you to build what you want on it.
However, I want to warn you that if you apply everything you find there, it can affect your mind and your body, which will result in nausea, migraines, mood swings or vertigo, because it puts in opposition two types of thoughts and behaviors, yours in its current form, and those that you desire. It may shake you up.
It's a book that will take you where you want to go, provided you do not force the events, everything that's going to happen will have a direct impact on your day-to-day, so read it quietly. It gathers valuable information, resulting from many researches in the field, anecdotes and excerpts of articles, it is quite complete, at least for the author, you will make your own opinion.
Also understand the complexity of making such a book, many hours of writing, reformulations, liters of coffee, a few dozen used pens to get a pure concentrate (just two pens, I inflate a little thing!)
Important point: at the beginning of the transformation process, keep this for yourself, do not mention this book in any case, especially in your current environment, you are still novices for most and some people around you will not understand, very little in phase with this type of theories, but when the first changes are going to happen, that you will be convinced yourself that everything that is said in this book works, you can share it en masse.
You will improve beliefs about yourself, you will feel able to go beyond your dreams. Be patient, read this book quietly and great truths will be revealed to you, but all you need to know, if you follow all that you will see to the letter, you will evolve to a level, go a step above, a line separating your reality from that coveted. It is one of the most powerful forces of nature.
I do not let the suspense linger any longer, and I wish you good reading.
Sincerely
Yoann MERITZA Specialized author
"To reach the end goal, I focus first on preparation."
(David Douillet)
The law of attraction is one of the most powerful forces in the universe, but very few know how to use it. All that is noted in this chapter is above all common sense.
Like a magnet, it attracts to you everything you want in your life, but there are conditions for this law to be used optimally.
On New Year's Day 2017, I remember receiving some notes from someone I did not know on a piece of paper, but I admit to being tempted by what was noted above, that is, a few instructions, and the woman I met that day told me that I would learn to use them the best way they are.
One question remained in me: "Why me? What more did I have that could differentiate me from others?
Later, I realized that I had nothing more than I already possessed, that is, "everything," as curious as it could be said.
In fact, we all have this power in us. Everything that happens in our lives comes from one place: ourselves!
The external conditions are a reflection of our inner world, and in reflecting, making a video recording of myself, I made a discovery.
By conditioning oneself to take a step back on one's own image, as if we see a person outside of our circle, we have what is called the "outside eye".
As amazing as it may seem, all the flaws I saw in others, I found them on this recording, I started to do my self-criticism. It opened my eyes to the person I was: "So this is how I am perceived?"
I invite you to experience it! Even if you do not recognize it right now, you have a lot of flaws, in fact, everyone has it, but also, everyone likes to lie to each other.
Bob Proctor, another self-developmental author, speaks of "attitude," but this is to understand in a broad sense, it is the attitude towards ourselves and others. The world around us is the strict reflection of who we are, the people we meet, the work we do, our housing and our way of life, everything is the same, and as the saying goes "that is alike s' together "!
It may not be the conditions that you want, but indirectly, you provoke them, I know very well that this is unenthusiastic, but it is the sad reality. I will detail a little further!
But it's a difficult concept to assimilate as long as we have blinders, prisoners of our beliefs.
Where do these beliefs come from? Directly from our childhood, and it is a set of neuro-associations that we made between an external element (words, colors, people ...), and our inner world. We are formatted from birth to have certain beliefs, by what is called the "paradigm". I will devote a whole chapter on this last point!
As I want everything that will be mentioned in this book to really work, and to show that the law of attraction is not a fantasy (you will discover it for yourself), let me give you some details for use it well.
Many have read a lot of books on the subject, without really knowing how to put the principles exposed in it, and yet, these books written by excellent authors, I can recommend some of them, Mickael Losier, Max Piccinini, Franck Nicolas, Napoleon Hill, Bob Proctor, Slavica Bogdanov and many others, have a very good approach to the subject. They are very competent in this area, and I invite you to read many of their books on the subject, you will discover points of similarities, and the advantage of knowing different visions of the law of attraction will allow you to understand explanations that are best suited for you.
That said, I want to give you some details about what you will discover over the pages, and use a great deal with you.
For my part, I have never hidden that it requires a constant investment on your part, we do not write books of magic (all authors combined), there is only one that is already in you. Power comes from within and not from outside, and what we do, we help you find that power, understand where it is in your mind, we open the path, you follow it.
To get everything you want in life, you need to fully invest!
What am I telling you? I'm just saying that everything that will be presented here in this book is largely a matter of common sense, I do not sell dreams, and I'm not a magician, and in these pages you will not find a way to do to appear a rabbit of a magic hat, it is not either an esoteric collection, you must first put feet on the ground. If these are the types of books you were looking for, they are located in the "fantasy" department of your city library.
What is presented in this book is something a little more serious, it's about personal development, and it's used in communication expert firms to train salespeople for example, it brings a better vision on its own person and human nature in general.
Everyone has their own training technique, and for my part, I am an essayist author, that is to say that I bring a vision, not to say opposite, but the finality remains the same by having a subject approach quite different from what you know.
And as, as author, I really want to bring you the best and give you the maximum of answers to use this universal law of attraction, I just ask you this: Play the game!
Remember this! "There is no magic except the one already in you!”
Prerequisite:
To come back to the law of attraction, I ask you a contribution for it to work optimally. Everything must be clear in your mind, In order to avoid deviating, you will not be able to concentrate on two aspects of your life, the present one and the one desired, you will have to find the way leading to the detachment, without the daily call to order.
It takes a while, more or less long for the mind to adapt to these new changes that may occur in your life, for some it will take a few weeks, but for others it will take may last for months, depending on the level of anchoring of your current thoughts, and your environment.
It will be necessary before that improve your daily life by small habits to take and stick to it, that's the best for you!
Bear in mind the feeling of prosperity when you have a sword of Damocles on your head will not get you anywhere, debts to pay off, the visit of a usher or others will bring you back to your reality, as well as the attendance of individuals who constantly expose you to their problems and who are in constant negativity, show tact and detachment from them!
They live in a world you do not want anymore, and you do not want someone to destroy all the progress you're going to make, do not be swayed or disassembled by people belittling you, be stronger than that mentally! It's about your life, and it would be a shame to ruin everything because of those who put you on the brakes.
Hope and fear can not cohabit in the same space and at the same frequency. There is always one thought that dominates the other, never both at the same time, and the one that predominates is the reality that you have accepted and that has been part of your life for a long time. So, if you do not want to be afraid of the next day, create the circumstances in this way, so as to have no reason to think about it.