RESOURCES

Print

Bongiovanni, Archie, and Tristan Jimerson. A Quick and Easy Guide to They/Them Pronouns. Portland, OR: Limerance Press, 2018.

Pitman, Gayle E. The Stonewall Riots: Coming Out in the Streets. New York: Abrams Books for Young Readers, 2019.

Pohlen, Jerome. Gay & Lesbian History for Kids: The Century-Long Struggle for LGBT Rights. Chicago: Chicago Review Press, 2015.

Prager, Sarah. Queer. There and Everywhere: 23 People Who Changed the World. New York: Harper Collins, 2017.

Online

Information and Support for LGBTQ+ Youth, Families and Friends

If you have lots of questions, are looking for good information or need support, the Trevor Project is a good place to start: thetrevorproject.org

If you have come out to your parents and they have questions or concerns or want to find a local chapter to meet with, they can contact PFLAG. You can also call them yourself for information, resources and support.

PFLAG in Canada: pflagcanada.ca

PFLAG in the US: community.pflag.org

If you are feeling alone, know that there are people who care about you. It Gets Better is a website that has recorded videos by more than fifty thousand people from all around the world to tell LGBTQ+ youth—especially those who are feeling alone or dealing with bullying or harassment—that it gets better: itgetsbetter.org

LGBTQ+ Rights

Lambda Legal: This US organization works toward LGBTQ+ equality. Its website has a section for LGBTQ+ youth, designed to help people know their rights and make sure they’re respected: lambdalegal.org/know-your-rights

United Nations Free and Equal campaign promotes fair treatment and equal rights for LGBTQ+ people around the world, and its website is a great resource for powerful videos and useful fact sheets: unfe.org/en

ILGA (International Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans and Intersex Association) publishes an annual report on sexual orientation laws around the world: ilga.org/about-us/annual-reports-documents

GSAs

If your school doesn’t have a GSA (Gender and Sexualities Alliance, or Gay-Straight Alliance), you might want to start one. These links have lots of useful information:

Gender and Sexualities Alliance Network (USA): gsanetwork.org

My GSA.ca (Canada): egale.ca/portfolio/mygsa

Resources For Educators

MyGSA.ca: This Canadian website includes a downloadable Equity and Inclusive Education Resource Kit—a guide to starting and maintaining GSAs and other LGBTQ+ student groups or clubs. egale.ca/portfolio/mygsa

GLSEN (Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network): This website offers information about GSAs, resources, activities, lesson plans and more, including a jump-start guide for those organizing GSAs and a downloadable Safe Space Kit: A Guide to Supporting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Students in Your School. glsen.org

SOGI 123: This resource used by schools in BC and Alberta is free and available online for all educators who want to work toward creating schools with LGBTQ+ inclusive policies, climates and curriculum sogieducation.org

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Glossary

ableism—the belief that able-bodied people are normal and people with disabilities are inferior, and the resulting exclusion of and/or discrimination against individuals with disabilities

ally—a person who supports the rights and freedoms of a marginalized or oppressed group that they do not belong to themselves

asexual—a person who is generally not sexually attracted to anyone and feels little or no sexual desire

bisexual (or bi)—a person who is attracted to two or more genders

cisgender—a person whose gender identity matches the sex they were assigned at birth

classism—discrimination against people because of their perceived social or economic class; also refers to the system of beliefs and structures that disadvantages some social classes while unfairly benefiting others

coming out—the process LGBTQ+ people go through as they move toward understanding, accepting and being more open about their gender identity or sexual orientation

discrimination—actions or decisions that treat a person or a group negatively because of their perceived race, sex, age, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, religion or disability

drag—an art form that involves both costume and performance; drag queens are generally men who dress and perform in feminine clothing, and drag kings are generally women who dress and perform in masculine clothing

dyke march—a political demonstration that aims to increase visibility for lesbians and transgender people and all women who love women, however they identify themselves

equality—the state of having the same rights, freedoms, social status, etc.

gay—usually refers to men who are attracted to other men but can also be used more broadly to refer to people who are attracted primarily to people of their own gender. Some women and non-binary people also identify as gay. Gay is also used more generally—for example, to refer to the gay rights movement.

genderfluid—a term used to describe a gender identity that shifts from day to day

gender identity—an internal sense of one’s gender (male, female, non-binary)

gender neutral—a person who doesn’t identify as either male or female

genderqueer—a person whose gender identity lies outside traditional binary ideas of masculine and feminine; also known as non-binary

GSAs—Gay-Straight Alliances or Gender and Sexualities Alliances, school-based clubs where LGBTQ+ students and allies can meet, support each other and work to make their schools and communities safer and more inclusive

heterosexism—the system of beliefs and attitudes based on the idea that everyone is or should be attracted to the opposite sex, and the resulting prejudice and discrimination against LGBTQ+ people

homophobia—the fear or hatred of people who are gay, lesbian or bisexual

intersex—a person whose physical sex (their body, their chromosomes and their hormones) doesn’t fit easily into traditional categories of male or female

labrys—a double-headed ax from ancient Crete, representing lesbian and feminist strength

lambda—a Greek letter used in many countries as a symbol of the gay and lesbian community

lesbian—a woman who is attracted to other women

LGBT—stands for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender

LGBTQ+—stands for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer; the + indicates the intent to be inclusive of all the identities that make up this diverse community

LGBTQQP2SIA—stands for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, pansexual, Two-Spirit, intersex and asexual

non-binary—see genderqueer

oppression—mistreatment and exploitation of a group of people based on their race, class, sexual orientation, ability, etc.; usually linked to a prevailing belief that the target group is in some way inferior

pansexual—a person attracted to all genders

persecution—the act of treating someone cruelly or unfairly, especially because of race, sexual orientation, gender identity, or religious or political beliefs

queer—a term sometimes used by LGBTQ+ people to refer to all those whose gender identity or sexual orientation falls outside the dominant heterosexual and gender-conforming mainstream

queer-positive—a term used to describe a person, organization or event that supports LGBTQ+ rights

questioning—a term referring to people who may not currently identify as LGBTQ+ but are in the process of exploring and discovering their sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression

QUILTBAG—an acronym for queer/questioning, undecided, intersex, lesbian, transgender, bisexual, asexual and gay

racism—the system of beliefs and attitudes that holds whiteness to be superior, and the resulting oppression of people of color

repeal—revoke or withdraw officially

sexism—the system of beliefs and attitudes that holds men to be superior, and the resulting oppression of women

sexual orientation—the pattern of a person’s romantic and sexual attractions to other people; an individual may be primarily attracted to people of another gender, people of the same gender or people of multiple genders

transgender—term referring to people who do not identify with the gender assigned to them at birth

transitioning—the process of changing one’s gender presentation (such as name, pronouns and appearance) to better fit with one’s internal sense of gender identity

trans march—a political demonstration that aims to increase visibility, awareness and acceptance of transgender people

transphobia—fear or hatred of transgender people

Two Spirit (2S)—a term used by some Indigenous people to refer to a person who has both a masculine and a feminine spirit; as a broad umbrella term, it can include a wide variety of Indigenous concepts of gender and sexual diversity

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Dunlop, David. “Stormé DeLarverie and Seymour Pine, on Opposite Sides of Stonewall.” New York Times, June 27, 2016. Accessed at nytimes.com/interactive/projects/cp/obituaries/archives/stonewall-delarverie-pine

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Harris, Kathleen. “‘Our Collective Shame’: Trudeau Delivers Historic Apology to LGBT Canadians.” CBC News, November 28, 2017. Accessed at cbc.ca/news/politics/homosexual-offences-exunge-records-1.4422546

Levy, Ron. “How One Man Helped Canadian LGBTQ+ Rights Take Flight.” Huffington Post, October 10, 2015. Updated October 10, 2016. Accessed at huffingtonpost.ca/ron-levy/canadian-lgbtq-rights_b_8265052.html (A photograph of the “We Demand” document is in the Canadian Lesbian and Gay Archives, accession number 89-038/01.)

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McCarthy, Justin. “Same-Sex Marriage Support Reaches New High at 55%.” Gallup, May 21, 2014. Accessed at gallup.com/poll/169640/sex-marriage-support-reaches-new-high.aspx

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Pasulka, Nicole. “Ladies in the Streets: Before Stonewall, Transgender Uprising Changed Lives.” NPR, May 5, 2015. Accessed August 1, 2018, at npr.org/sections/codeswitch/2015/05/05/404459634/ladies-in-the-streets-before-stonewall-transgender-uprising-changed-lives

Pew Research Center. “Changing Attitudes on Gay Marriage.” June 26, 2017. Accessed at pewforum.org/fact-sheet/changing-attitudes-on-gay-marriage

Piette, Alexandria. “In Remembrance of the Stonewall Riots: The Lasting Impact on the LGBTQ+ Community.” Accessed August 1, 2018, at womensrepublic.net/in-remembrance-of-the-stonewall-riots-the-lasting-impact-on-the-lgbtq-community

Rivera, Sylvia. “Queens in Exile, the Forgotten Ones.” In GenderQueer: Voices from Beyond the Sexual Binary. Los Angeles: Alyson Books, 2002.

Chapter Two

Coyote, Ivan E., and Rae Spoon. Gender Failure. Vancouver, BC: Arsenal Pulp Press, 2014.

Hernández, Daisy. “Choose Your Words With Cuidado.” In 50 Ways to Support Lesbian & Gay Quality: The Complete Guide to Supporting Family, Friends, Neighbors—or Yourself. Meredith Maran and Angela Watrous, eds. Novato, CA: New World Library, 2005.

Hoad, Neville Wallace, Karen Martin and Graham Reid. Sex and Politics in South Africa. Cape Town: Double Storey Books, 2010.

Holliday, Ian. “11-Year-Old Transgender Girl Not Done Yet after Changing Birth Certificate.” CTV News, July 23, 2014. Accessed at bc.ctvnews.ca/11-year-old-transgender-girl-not-done-yet-after-changing-birth-certificate-1.1929208

McAfee, Tierney. “Laverne Cox’s Heartfelt Message to ‘Struggling’ Fans: ‘Your Stories Matter.’” January 10, 2016. Accessed at people.com/awards/golden-globes-2016-laverne-cox-tells-fans-your-stories-matter

Quinn, Emily. “The Way We Think about Biological Sex is Wrong.” Filmed at TEDWomen 2018. Video, 14:06.

Sheldon, Mia, and Jill Krop. “10-Year-Old Transgender Child Fights to Have Gender Removed From Birth Certificate.” Global News, December 7, 2013. Accessed at globalnews.ca/news/1008919/10-year-old-transgender-child-fights-to-have-gender-removed-from-birth-certificate

Townsend, Megan. “Anderson Cooper: ‘Being Gay Is a Blessing.’” Glaad. March 11, 2013. Accessed at glaad.org/blog/anderson-cooper-being-gay-blessing

Chapter Three

Ascah, Adrienne. “Universalist Muslims Embrace Queer Brothers and Sisters.” Daily Xtra, July 22, 2014. Accessed at dailyxtra.com/ottawa/news/universalist-muslims-embrace-queer-brothers-and-sisters-89649

Baum, Sarah Emily. “Erin Bailey Is Throwing a Pride Festival in Mike Pence’s Hometown.” Teen Vogue, April 13, 2018. Accessed July 31, 2018, at teenvogue.com/story/erin-bailey-is-throwing-a-pride-festival-in-mike-pences-hometown

Brachear, Manya A. “Pride Parade to Put Faith at the Forefront.” Chicago Tribune, June 24, 2012. Accessed at articles.chicagotribune.com/2012-06-24/news/ct-met-gay-pride-parade-religion-20120624_1_pride-parade-religious-groups-gay-community

Macdonald, Nancy. “Small-Town Steinbach Fills to Bursting with Gay Pride.” Maclean’s magazine, July 12, 2016. Accessed July 31, 2018, at macleans.ca/news/canada/small-town-steinbach-fills-to-bursting-with-gay-pride

Shahla Khan Salter. “We’re Queer Muslims and Allies Marching at Pride for Those Who Can’t.” Huffington Post, August 29, 2018. Accessed at huffingtonpost.ca/shahla-khan-salter/lgbtq-muslims-pride-parade_a_23511149

Chapter Four

Britton, Bianca. “Kasha Nabagesera: The Face of Uganda’s LGBT Movement.” CNN, March 6, 2017. Accessed at cnn.com/2017/03/05/africa/her-kasha-jacqueline-nabagesera-lgbt-campaigner/index.html

Christie, Bob, dir. Beyond Gay: The Politics of Pride. Canada: 2009. 90 min.

Cleo. “Cleo’s Moments of Pride.” Bombastic: Our Voices, Our Stories, Our Lives, 2014. Accessed at issuu.com/bombasticmagazine/docs/bombasticmagazine-electronic

Dougherty, Sarah. “These Are the 6 Openly Gay Athletes Competing at the Sochi Olympics.” Global Post, February 5, 2014. Accessed at globalpost.com/dispatch/news/regions/europe/russia/140203/6-openly-gay-athletes-sochi-olympics-russia

Dresden, Hilton. “British PM Theresa May Calls Anti-Gay Commonwealth Laws ‘Wrong.’” Out magazine, April 17, 2018. Accessed April 21, 2018, at out.com/news-opinion/2018/4/17/british-pm-theresa-may-calls-anti-gay-commonwealth-laws-wrong

Ellifson, Lindsay. “Rippon Says He Had ‘Responsibility’ to Represent LGBTQ Causes at Olympics.” CNN, March 7, 2018. Accessed at cnn.com/2018/03/07/politics/adam-rippon-lgbtq-mike-pence-cnntv/index.html

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The Hidden Flag website: thehiddenflag.org

Jacqueline, Kasha. “The Attack on Gay Rights in Uganda.” Oslo Freedom Forum, September 28, 2012. Accessed at oslofreedomforum.com/speakers/kasha-jacqueline

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Chapter Five

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“Newfoundland Town that Nixed Rainbow Crosswalk Hoists Pride Flag for First Time.” CBC News, June 4, 2018. Accessed July 31, 2018, at cbc.ca/news/canada/newfoundland-labrador/springdale-hoists-pride-flag-1.4691282

Wilson, Tru. “Living My Truth.” TEDxEastVan. Accessed August 25, 2018, at youtube.com/watch?v=Ier2_JqVEWQ

index

Page numbers in bold indicate an image; there may also be text related to the same topic on that page

2S (Two-Spirit), 51, 88, 155

ableism, 71, 154

acceptance finding community, 42–45, 72 and public opinion, 32–34, 42 and self-expression, 45–46, 69

activism. See also allies how to help, 150–151 to increase visibility, 32–33, 42, 89, 123–124 overcoming prejudice, 52–54, 71 resources, 144–145, 152–153 risks of, 120–121, 122–125 use of social media, 44, 127

ACT UP, 31, 32

African countries, 35, 37, 94, 115–121

agender, 49

AIDs epidemic, 30, 31–32, 33

Alexeyev, Nikolai, 125

allies, 154 faith-based, 84–85 family, 38–39, 55 school-based, 29–31, 61, 136–142 showing support, 52–55, 87–88, 150–151

Amnesty International, 127–129, 151

Amsterdam, Holland, 103

Andrianova, Polina, 125

androgynous, 49

Antarctica, 129

anti-gay backlash, 87, 107–109, 111–115

Apuzzo, Virginia M., 21

Argentina, 37, 105

asexual, 46, 51, 154

Asian countries, 37, 94, 107–109, 111–115, 125–127

asylum seekers, 124

Aurora GSA, 138–142

Australia, 37, 50, 103–104

Austria, 102, 151

Bailey, Erin, 91

Baker, Gilbert, 74, 94

Ban Ki-moon, 96

Belgium, 36

Berlin, Germany, 100–101

Bermuda, 36

Big Gay Dog Walk, 74

bisexual (or bi), 49, 58–59, 154 Pride flag, 75

Black Pride UK, 98, 103

blacks, 19, 87, 98, 103

books. See literature

Botswana, 119

Brazil, 37, 104–105

Brown, Ryan, 90–91

bullying, 44, 61, 72, 91, 136, 150

Cakmak, Senef, 113

Canada apology to LGBTQ+, 37 and asylum seekers, 124 discrimination in, 15–16, 18, 26, 147 legal rights in, 36, 63, 87, 89 same-sex marriage, 34–35

Chaplow, Biff, 82–83

Charles, Danny, 46

Chechen Republic, 124

Chicago, 15, 17, 33, 85

children. See youth and children

Christopher Street Liberation Day, 17, 22, 23, 25–26, 39

cisgender, 46, 52, 154

cissexism, 84

classism, 27, 154

clothing as activism, 54, 124 costumes, 44, 49, 67–69, 71 gender laws, 20, 69

colonial legacy, 94, 119

Columbus, IN, 91

coming out defined, 45–46, 154 experience, 58–59, 60–61, 62–63 support, 37, 91

Communists, 16

Conover, Shoshanah, 85

Cooper, Anderson, 56

Copenhagen, Denmark, 85, 86, 151

costumes, 44, 49, 67–69, 71

Cox, Laverne, 56

Croatia, 37

Crocker, Katelynn, 138–142

cross-dressing, 69. See also drag culture

Cunningham, Harriette, 62–63

Daughters of Bilitis, 16–17

Dee, Barbara, 54

DeLarverie, Stormé, 23

Denmark, 37, 85, 86, 151

disabled people, 28, 71, 88

discrimination, 154. See also equality; legal rights

drag culture, 79–80, 81, 154 cross-dressing, 69 kings, 23, 79–80 queens, 20, 22, 27–28, 69

dyke marches, 88–89, 154

Dykes on Bikes, 68, 69

Eastern Europe, 95, 103, 123–125

East Timor, 126

education and advocacy campaigns, 71–72, 127–129 how to help, 150–151 resources, 144–145, 152– social media, ,