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Surviving the Holidays For Dummies®

Table of Contents

Introduction
How This Book Is Organized
Icons Used in This Book
Where to Go from Here
Chapter 1: Getting in the Holiday Mindset
Avoiding Holiday Stress
Plan ahead
Shop smart!
Read the recipe instructions
Use some familiar recipes
Prepare ingredients early
Ask for help
Breathe
Exercise
Be prepared for surprises
Don’t worry, be happy
Surprise! Cleaning Your House for Unexpected Guests
Stocking Up on Christmas Spirits
Alcohol
Nonalcoholic beverages
Chapter 2: Surviving Holiday Shopping
Dealing with Gift Expectations
Making Your Own Gifts
Knit a scarf
Give sweet treats like a pro
Basic recipes
Chapter 3: So You Want to Have a Party?
Deciding What Kind of Party to Have
Why are you throwing a party?
Tradition matters
Choosing a Date
Sizing Up Your Space
Using your resources wisely
Planning Your Guest List
Setting your priorities
Looking at how many people you can invite
Inviting Your Guests
Chapter 4: Cooking Up a Storm
Planning Your Menu
Greeting Your Guests with Quick and Easy Appetizers
Serving a Salad
Making a Main Course
Preparing Side Dishes
Indulging in Dessert
Chapter 5: Making Your Party Shine
Developing the Right Attitude
Preparing an Action Plan: It’s All about the Lists
Creating a shopping list
Tasks you can do ahead of time
Last-minute to-do’s
Timing is everything
Setting the Mood with Music
Being a Good Host
Greeting guests
Moving your guests to the table
Getting your guests to go home
Chapter 6: Returning to a Positive State of Mind
Lifting Your Post-Holiday Spirits
Regaining a Positive Outlook
Fighting negative expectations
Moving beyond pessimism
Letting Your Actions Speak Louder Than Words
Living an honest life
Being ethical
Developing Closer Social Ties
Relaxing after the Festivities
Chapter 7: Feeling as Good Physically as You Do Mentally
Getting Fit — No Time Like the Present!
Replacing fat with firm muscles
Preventing back problems
Making activity and a healthy diet part of your everyday life
Giving Yoga a Try
Cultivating the right attitude
Enjoying a safe and sound yoga practice
Striving for a Relaxed Body and Mind: Meditation
Chapter 8: Ten or So Holiday Do’s and Don’ts
Do Make Yourself a Priority
Do Take Time to Ask about House Rules or Make Them Clear
Don’t Be a Hero
Do Let Social Media Help You
Do Stick with What You Know
Do Unwrap It Already
Don’t Expect to Attend Every Party and Event
Do Be Reasonable When Planning

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Introduction

Just the thought of the holidays can be overwhelming: the decorating, the shopping, the entertaining, the extra commitments (not to mention the sleep deprivation). And if you have kids, juggling everything can prove to be even more of a challenge.

Fortunately, Surviving the Holidays For Dummies offers great tips to help you not only make it through the holidays in one piece but also to have your friends and family marveling at how you do it all!

How This Book Is Organized

This book is divided into eight chapters that guide you through the holiday process. Whether you’re having trouble getting in the holiday spirit or are overwhelmed by all the shopping and entertaining, we have some tips for you.

In Chapter 1, you find out how to avoid holiday stress. (Yes, it can be done!) And in Chapter 2, you discover how you can get a head start on holiday shopping.

In Chapter 3, you get the scoop on hosting a stellar holiday bash, including choosing the date and planning your guest list. Chapter 4 helps you plan an awesome menu, while Chapter 5 reveals the secret to making your holidays flow smoothly with must-have to-do lists.

Holidays leave you feeling drained? In Chapters 6 and 7, you find out how to recover both mentally and physically.

And, of course, no For Dummies book is complete without a lighthearted Part of Tens chapter. In Chapter 8, you discover what you should (and shouldn’t) do during the holidays.

Icons Used in This Book

Throughout this book are little pictures called icons, which highlight important information. Here’s the decoder key:

remember_4c.eps This icon is a friendly reminder of the information you’ll want to remember as you go through the holiday season.

tip_4c.eps This icon points out suggestions for ways to do things better or faster. If you’re looking for some quick and easy pointers on ways to improve your holidays, check out the paragraphs with this icon by their side.

warning_4c.eps Don’t be scared by this icon — but do pay attention to it. In these paragraphs, you’ll discover information on ways to avoid mishaps and minor catastrophes.

Where to Go from Here

If you’re sitting down with a cup of coffee while visions of sugarplums are dancing in your kids’ heads, feel free to read from start to finish. But if you’re panicking about your never-ending holiday to-do list — you do have a to-do list, right? — then skip to the part that you need most.