Learn to:
- Evaluate your options in light of changes in the law
- Minimize legal, financial, and personal stress
- Get more of what you want from negotiations
- Utilize the latest statistics, Web sites, and resources
Now updated your realistic, reassuring guide to surviving divorce
Getting divorced is almost never easy, but this practical, plain-English guide helps you get through the proceedings with a minimum of stress and expense. It shows you the latest changes in collaborative divorces, common law and same-sex marriages, and even custody law and how to work out the terms so you can begin building a fulfilling postdivorce life.
- Understand the divorce process review the key issues and decisions, get your finances in order, and file the petition
- Decide whether divorce is the best option weigh the pros and cons of separation, consider marriage counseling, and learn about annulments
- Put things in motion initiate the proceedings, break the news to your spouse and children, and deal with your emotions
- Make important and difficult decisions divide your assets and debts, make a case for spousal support, and get the best custody arrangement for your children
- Protect yourself plan for life after divorce, safeguard your money, and take action if things turn unfriendly or dangerous
- Avoid a divorce trial negotiate your own divorce, seek help from an attorney, and work with a mediator
- Handle postdivorce challenges meet your financial obligations, deal with visitation and child support problems, and get your personal life back on track
Open the book and find:
- What to do before you file for divorce
- Tips for finding a competent, affordable divorce attorney
- Help for managing your finances during and after divorce
- Advice on helping children cope
- Divorce blogs, Web sites, and support groups
- Ways to rebuild your life after divorce
- How to utilize mediation when negotiations get rough
- Alternatives to divorce